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SELL_YOUR_STUFF_fullIn a previous article, we covered how to price your items. In this article, we’ll look at where to sell your items.

There are several ways you can sell your items, many of which you already know. For instance, having a garage sale is a common way to sell items we no longer need, use or want. It does take work but it will garner a few bucks for your used items.

There are alternatives to garage sales as well. Here are a few ideas to get you thinking about what would be best for you and your family:

1. Sell at Auction: Higher quality items could be sold at auction. We often refer our clients to a local auction house with whom we have established a long-term relationship.

Selling at auction has its risks in that you do not set the selling price. The auctioneer will set the starting price and what the item is sold for is what you will receive less the auction house’s established commission rate.

When selling at auction, you can have the items picked up by the auction house for a fee or you can deliver them yourself. You don’t pay storage fees and the cheque is mailed direclty to you once the item has sold.

2. Sell online: This is probably one of the most popular choices available and there are several online platforms to choose from, including but not limited to Ebay, Kijiji, Craigslist and other locally owned and managed selling platforms.

There are also other platforms specific to the type of item you are selling. For example Etsy caters to handcrafted art pieces, while Ruby Lane caters to antiques, vintage jewellery and collectibles.

You will require a photo which you can easily upload to the website. Give a complete description of the item and price it realistically. Items that are overpriced will not sell.

Once a party is interested, they will call you to come see the item. Always have someone with you and only accept cash as payment. Be prepared to negotiate therefore set your original price with some wiggle room.

Be sure to leverage your social media platforms too! Use Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest and other social media tools to get the word out!

3. Sell as an estate sale: If you have a house full of items to sell, this may be the most efficient way to go. It does require careful planning and getting the word out but it’s a viable and cost effective way of selling many items on one day to several potential buyers.

We have a few interviews with a professional estate sale specialist and her recordings are available by clicking on these links:

Estate Sale 101
DIY Estate/Tag Sale
Common Mistakes to Avoid When Having an Estate/Tag Sale
Estate Sale Success Stories

4. Sell At Consignment: Do an online search for local consignment stores and you’ll find many just a short drive away from your home. Many will restrict the items they are willing to take and pricing structures vary therefore call several to find out if this is a viable option for you and your family.

Selling your items will take some grunt work and some research. Do your due dilligence to ensure you are pricing items properly and let them go. Be open to negotiating and accepting less than what you think your items are worth. Remember, you are creating space for the new opportunities coming your way.

NOTE: If you feel you have items that have high value, have them appraised. It is worth the time and the money to ensure items are properly assessed for their value. Once they are appraised, one more recommendation – have them individually insured before you sell them. It is worth protecting your valuable assets.

for sale signYour mother is moving into a retirement residence and you’re looking at her dining room set, which includes a china cabinet of fine china, silverplated serving sets and crystal glassware. You are sure they are worth money but you’re just not sure how much.

Despite what these items were paid for many years ago, the reality is an item’s worth is based on how unique and rare it is and/or what someone is willing to pay for it.

The cold hard truth is that many of these items have lost their value because the market is becoming flooded with them and the younger generations do not want them. They prefer to buy things from IKEA or other stores of that nature. They are not interested in buying furniture that is 20 or 30 years old. They don’t want dishes that cannot be washed in the dishwasher. They want what is new, hip, inexpensive and easy to care for.

In addition, older generations that have established homes don’t want extra furniture, dishes or glassware. They have what they need and adding to it would just take up space already consumed by other things.

So you’re caught. What do you do?

1. Do your research: hit the computer and the phone and find out what items of that nature are selling for online or at local auctions. Be sure to compare of like kind and quality including the brand, the maker or designer, the year of production, etc. It may take a bit of time to research but you’ll have a better understanding of how to price your items.

2. Lower your expectations: many of us believe items are worth far more than the market is willing to pay for them. Despite your high expectations, items will sell for what someone is willing to pay. Be realistic and know that the items are going to someone who wants them.

3. Let it go: this may be a tough one especially when we are attached to a value we expect or a sentimental story about the item in question. Know that with this transition, comes new opportunities. Letting the items go will free up space, allow for less worry and concern and bring in a little money.

Be open and curious as you go through this process. Having an optimistic approach to selling items that have been in the family for years can be emotionally taxing. Know that by downsizing and selling the items that are no longer needed or wanted you are creating the space for good things to come.

Ann LeachAfter the tragic loss of losing most of what she owned on May 22, 2011 in the deadliest tornado in U.S. history, Ann Leach created a way for people from around the world to help in their healing all while making a difference in the lives of thousands.  Her movement – International Letting Go Day.

This idea encourages everyone to let go of the things that are no longer serving you or bringing you joy and gifting them to others in need. In the process, she encourages us all to say a prayer of thanks for what we do have while offering love to those who have less.  By letting go, we are creating a world for more good to come into our lives and that of others.

Listen to her amazing story of survival as she shares what you can do today and throughout the  year to let go, move forward and make a profound difference.

Websites:
International Letting Go Day
Life Preservers Grief Support



LifeIsGoodI had the honour of meeting Bert Jacobs, the co-founder of Life Is Good, at a conference last week.   His genuine spirit and adorable nature had over 900 entrepreneurs rallying his cry that kindness and optimism are the keys to success and happiness.

He came on stage in sneakers, light-coloured blue jeans and a white shirt.  He looked very much like a surfer “dude” with his tussled, brown curls of hair and a full moustache and beard.  Within minutes he took off his shoes and later confessed that he didn’t remember taking them off as he was just in the moment, sharing with us his journey from hocking t-shirts in the streets with his brother John to their multi-million dollar business at Life is Good.

Several of his key points will stick with me and they are worth sharing with you.  Take note as they are what we call ‘keepers’:

1.  “Don’t waste your energy of your wild and precious life on what’s wrong with it.  Focus every day on what is right.”  That is such a powerful message.  Every day things go wrong, we are frustrated by things we cannot control and yet his message is to focus on all the things that are right in our lives; our health, our homes, our families, our friends and our work.  There is so much to be thankful for that we often forget how much we truly are blessed to have.

2.  ”Write a bucket list.”  Bert suggests that a bucket list is something to have and revise regularly.  He has big dreams on his list that have come to fruition and he has some that he has yet to experience.  Having a bucket list gives him something to look forward to that inspires him to continue to move forward.

3. “Optimism opens doors.”  That is such a profound statement and one that has literally opened up thousands of doors for him and his brother and for their company.  Their motto of ‘life is good’ truly is a testament to what they embody as people and as a company.  Even in the face of tragedy as one of their very own was at the finish line during the bombings at the Boston Marathon, the motto was that life was good.  He was alive and he would make it.

You don’t always get the opportunity to meet people who embrace their lives with such love and optimism.  There is much negativity and cynicism which makes for a very painful world.  And yet, here is Bert and his brother John, with their buddies Jake and Rocket, who want us to focus on what is good in our lives & in this world and be an active part in it.  They encourage us to look at life with optimism and faith, to be kind and loving to each other and show up for what is important.

I’m with them on their mission.  And I encourage you to join us too.  It’s far more fun (and sometimes easier) to look at life  knowing that it’s going to be ok and that life is good.

For more information about Life Is Good you can visit their website and read about their story, what they are doing to help children in need through Playmakers, and their upcoming family music festival.

Pierrette Raymond is the founder and owner of Moving Forward Matters.  

Facing major transition and having to navigate the challenges and the overwhelm is not an easy task.  There are so many emotions involved that we often find ourselves stuck and not moving forward.

Our interview with Kathleen Hanagan, transformational coach, psychotherapist and spiritual teacher, will help you look at your transition from a new and empowering perspective.  She offers spiritual and emotional techniques to help you and your loved ones face your transition without fear or resistance.

KathleenHanniganFor more information about Kathleen and her practice, you can visit her website TurnYourLightOn.com.  You’ll also find her newest and most transformational program Grounded In the Light, a four-part audio series complete with bonuses, to help you find the true purpose of your life, transform all obstacles to achieving your highest destiny, and radically raise your consciousness to experience more bliss and joy than ever before.

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Aging parentsOften we feel stuck when paralized by indecision. It’s this indecision that keeps up from taking steps to move us forward.

Recently, we met with a family who wanted assistance preparing their house for the market. They didn’t have a big project ahead of them compared to many of our other clients. The house was relatively tidy and needed a little TLC for it to show well.

However, the family felt overwhelmed by where they were in terms of getting things organized and ready to list the house. As many of you know, we offer services to help with every step of listing a house and yet the family, despite their best intentions was stuck in not being able to make a decision.

Many of our clients are currently busy getting their homes listed before the spring rush and this family is missing out on potential buyers by waiting to make a decision.

When faced with overwhelm and uncertainty, simply assess where you are and what you need most. Determine what is most important and then begin making decisions based on your priorities.

Even the smallest steps will move you forward towards the larger more involved goals such as listing your house for the market and having it sold.

It takes but one decision to move the needle. Make it and then make another. In not time, you’ll be on the path to where you want to be – comfortably settled in to your new home.

PossibleWhen I had my women’s personal development organization from 2002-2008, the foundational piece of what we stood for was being there for each other as we moved forward with our goals and aspirations. It was a group that was supportive, caring and we kept each other accountable for what was truly important in our lives.

We focused on six areas of our life:

  • Health & Fitness
  • Business & Career
  • Humanitarism & Community
  • Fun & Adventure
  • Family & Relationships

Each week, we’d set one goal in each area of our lives and then shared our success, lack of it, the following week to the group. It was fun, engaging and for many, life-changing.

Having a supportive group of people who wanted you to succeed was extremely helpful in making goals come true. Being accountable to someone else added to the likelyhood of success. Being honest and responsible for the decisions you made and the direction you were taking your life was critical.

Now that I have worked with seniors and their families since that time, I find that the same principles apply when we are planning on aging-in-place, downsizing and moving.

When focusing on what is truly important in your life, ask yourself what steps you need to take now that will help you to move towards what you want in your life. Look at all areas listed above (add finances) and ask yourself what is missing, what you would want and what steps you know will move you forward towards your goals.

You may need support from experts who are experienced and know  what you will be experiencing. Having someone to help lead the way will ensure your struggles are minimal, that the amount of stress and fear you experience is greatly reduced, and that you are kept on task and focused on the end goal.

It often doesn’t take much to get started. Just a desire to look honestly at where you are and decide what is truly important.  Then take one step each day to move you closer towards your goal.

You are responsible for your life. Don’t blame others or use excuses to hide behind where you are today. Instead, make a decision, start today, and look at your life, all areas of your life, and move forward.

We are here to help! You are not alone!

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Pierrette2For more than twelve years, Pierrette Raymond has been working alongside families undergoing stress, anxiety and fear as they experience major life transitions including the loss of a loved one, moving from one home to another, or downsizing and decluttering their homes.

With a background in Psychology & Education and subsequent training in Death, Dying, Bereavement, Grief Recovery and certifications as a Certified Relocation & Transition Specialist & a Masters in NLP, she understands the emotional, physical, mental and spiritual challenges and complexities that people must face while they journey through a time of transition.

She has been described as compassionate, caring, having a huge heart and always working passionately and diligently for the families that she serves.

Aging parentsIt’s the New Year, an opportunity to start fresh, plan ahead and take advantage of all the exciting opportunities that are to come. It’s an incredible time where we feel the desire to move forward in all the right ways, leaving behind unhealthy habits, procrastination and negative thinking.

But for how many of you, the holidays were a stark reminder that things at home, with your parents or a loved one, were changing?

Over the holidays, you may have found your parents, an older friend or a loved one not able to move like they used to, think like they used to, engage like they used to. There were little red flags that caught your attention and made you think that things were different, that they were shifting and that your loved one may be heading towards the direction of requiring more assistance, support or even, a new home.

There are obvious warning signs that it may be time to investigate options for your loved one, options that would help them continue to live in their current home or opt for a smaller home or residence with in-house services.

Here are some of the warning signs that can help you begin the process of investigating options that are presently available to you and your loved one. Below is a list of questions that you could ask your loved one using understanding, compassion, openness and respect. Remember, it’s very important not to judge or criticize their answers. Allow them to share what they are ready to share now while you support and help them moving forward:

• Are you having trouble maintaining the condition of your home?
• Are you having trouble cleaning your home?
• Are you finding yourself avoiding the stairs because they are too challenging to go up or come down?
• Are you worried about your personal safety in your home?
• Are you having difficulty taking care of yourself?
• Are you feeling isolated from family and friends because it’s becoming too challenging to go out by yourself?
• Are you feeling lonely?
• Are you worried that medical care isn’t easily accessible because of where you currently live?
• Are you worried that you are or will become a burden to your children?
• Are your children hinting that it’s time to move?

If your loved one has said yes to any of the above or hesitated while answering, it may be time to begin the process of investigating options. There is no need to jump to conclusions and initiate a full-blown intervention. Simply begin enquiring about services that are available to provide assistance for your loved one to continue to live in their home. Speak to family members and friends on what each person can do to pitch in to help and support your loved one. And start investigating housing options that provide in-house services that will be beneficial to your loved one moving forward.

There is help available. You do not have to journey through this phase of life alone.

Please note that we also have a free resource available for download called “The Art of Downsizing: A Step-by-Step Guide to a Smooth Home Transition” that is available on our website. This guide offers practical tips to help find resources for your loved one to stay in their home or downsize to a smaller home or residence. The guide also provides step-by-step instructions on where to start the downsizing process, how to find suitable home accommodations and how to navigate the home transition route.

You are not alone. We are here to help. Call or email us with your questions or concerns and we’ll be happy to support you in your quest for information and help.

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Pierrette2For more than twelve years, Pierrette Raymond has been working alongside families undergoing stress, anxiety and fear as they experience major life transitions including the loss of a loved one, moving from one home to another, or downsizing and decluttering their homes.

With a background in Psychology & Education and subsequent training in Death, Dying, Bereavement, Grief Recovery and certifications as a Certified Relocation & Transition Specialist & a Masters in NLP, she understands the emotional, physical, mental and spiritual challenges and complexities that people must face while they journey through a time of transition.

She has been described as compassionate, caring, having a huge heart and always working passionately and diligently for the families that she serves.

The holidays can be a time where grief and loss can be intensified exponentially and our ability to handle everything can be extremely overwhelming.

Letting go and moving forward is often something we hear however during the holidays, we often want nothing more to do but hold on for dear life.

Join us for an intimate talk about loss, grief and how to move forward not only during the holidays but all year round. Don’t head into the holidays with a heavy heart dreading the festivities. Listen to our call to find out how you too can enjoy this time of year while honouring the losses you are experiencing.

Our Guest Expert:  Ann Leach

Ann Leach is the owner of Life Preservers: a global grief support community. A grief recovery specialist, Ann has helped hundreds cope with loss and change resulting from a life-altering event. She’s had her own share of life experience and training to qualify her as your loss and change expert: a certified grief recovery specialist, a Master’s in psychology and counseling and by age 16 she’d lost every significant male in her life and by age 32, every significant female and she’s an only child! Most recently Ann survived the EF 5 tornado that hit Joplin, Mo. in 2011 but lost her home and everything in it. She’s rebuilt her life to include a private suite for client retreats called the Creative Cottage where she invites you to visit and relax, refresh and recreate your own life after loss and change. For more information, visit Ann’s websites at:

Life Preservers Grief Support and The Creative Cottage

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No words can ever express how deeply saddened we are for the loss and devastation of the loved ones in Newtown, Connecticut today, Friday, December 14th, 2012.

What started out as a normal day for many of us turned into a day of tragedy, disbelief and heartbreak for all.

To help us understand the feelings we are going through as we watch and learn of the devastating losses of beautiful children and caring adults, we asked our dear friend and colleague, Ann Leach, who is a grief recovery specialist, to speak to us about the feelings we are experiencing – the anger, the sadness, and the disbelief – and what we can do now to help us go through this loss by understanding what we can do to help.

Listen to our interview with Ann.

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